Important observation about relationships:



If you're complaining about your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend to the entire world, that's not good.



Complain about him to his face. If you need extra venting time, complain privately about him to your next closest friend... who will comfort you and advise you to complain about him to his face.



Using blog and away messages to complain about him, call him stupid, and point out all his faults is not a good way to encourage him to try harder.



If the only nice thing you have to say about him is that you love him, it's time to rethink the relationship. When all you do is complain about him, that indicates that either 1. you're not taking the time to give him credit for all the wonderful things he does for you; 2. you're unhappy in general and taking it out on the easiest target; or 3. he's not loving you the way that he should be.



Occasional complaints are natural and expected. Constant complaining is a problem. Think about it.



They don't change, you know. You either deal with it, shut up, and love him anyway; or leave him, shut up, and find what makes you happy.



This has been a publis service announcement from someone who's been there, dealt with it, finally left, and couldn't be happier.